
Let me see if I can put down the fork for a minute... we've been eatin' here (ham, potatoes, greens- no D & C..not of the collard-kind!). Just finished off a extra large piece of pie and am watching the hips spread by the hour. Think that sitting around, watching a movie while eating doesn't help plus we didn't get the usual Thanksgiving walk around the neighborhood in either, so this year it feels like pure gluttony. One other big change is that we remained home (like you D) just w/our lil' selves..no hassles, no packing up, no driving..no hearing Vic gripe about his back problems from the sleeping accomodations at my folks.. nada, zip, zelch! This is the first time in all the 15 years of marriage that we stayed in and cooked our own meal. I'm proud of us but the guilt caused me to meet my sister at the freeway in the rain w/flowers for my folks, money that I've owed them, a handpainted card from the boys w/new school pictures enclosed. The guilt of a father drives one to mea culpa's in any form! Even tho I got the; "it's up to you guys..you don't have to come...we'll see you at Christmas anyway..then the finale'.."I'm not going to beg anyone..!" But after speaking w/he and ma, I can tell he's in a happy daddy place so no worries. Wonder if it was the money I sent?
Dor, sorry about gramma. I thought of her as we watched, "Cocoon" tonight. It's strange to hear of this as Vic sells an anti-coagulant drug. He would probably go ballistic if he heard how this happened and offer way too much information of what occurs and prevention, et.. kwim? But, clots are serious and I'm sure you already know that she could have died had it traveled elsewhere. I know it's not much consolation but she is here. She'll have to transition and that's a big deal. What kind of support does she have? Can she talk to someone-- a counselor maybe? Wow, 93 and fiesty, healthy up til now...what a woman! God bless her heart. I can see YOU like that.

I'll be praying for her to have what she needs to help her right now.
I hope you all had a nice one-- Chris maybe in jammies free boobin', Doe sneaking meat and drinking a tall glass of milk with desert, Moni at "Black Anus" drinking her glass of wine and trying to be nice to her sister, Kim juggling her fam and ours wishing someone would spike the holiday drinks, and me, now 5 pounds heavier but no less sexy in my skull and cross bones p.j's that the boy's love!
